You didn't make the decision lightly. Now that you have done the deed all you can think about is how to stop feeling guilty after cheating on your husband. The fact that you feel guilty is a good sign that there is still a lot of love in the marriage and that you still believe your husband is a good man. This means there is still hope that the marriage can be saved if you're willing to do whatever it takes to save the marriage.
If you really want to know how to stop feeling guilty after cheating on your husband then you'll want to really absorb every word of this article and then put those words into practice. Just make sure you read all the way to the very end and watch the important video in the link at the bottom to learn the one thing you should never do while trying to save your relationship and/or eliminate guilt after cheating.
Here are a few great suggestions to help you get over those feelings of guilt and replace them with other thoughts and feelings quickly.
1) Understand your worth to the overall relationship picture. You both make good and bad contributions to the relationship. Now is the time to explore your options so that you can make the most of the good things you bring to the relationship while minimizing the negative impact you may have.
2) Leave the past behind you. No one needs the added weight of past slights and arguments to carry around all the time and yet many people in marriages do just that. It's time to forgive your husband and be prepared to accept his forgiveness too. Start over without the past weighing you down and there will be no limit to how far the two of you can go together as a couple.
3) Learn to let your partner know what you want and need. You might not get everything you want from your husband but you will definitely get more from him if you tell him what you want and need than you'll ever get while waiting for him to learn to read your mind. Men are not psychic. They like things simple and easy. Most men have little trouble telling you what they want and need and expect the same thing in return from you. Learn to do that and you'll be happier, he'll be happier, and your marriage will soar. Most importantly, you'll stop feeling guilty after cheating on your husband and over all that resentment you've been walking around with.